How Low Can You Go?

Tell us about the most exciting big night out you had recently.

Imagine sitting in your kitchen on a Sunday afternoon, just 2 days after Christmas, trying to muster up the incentive clean-up the holiday aftermath, and go food shopping. The struggle was real.

In the distance, I heard a faint ding a/k/a as the diversion. 

I reacted like the trained lab rat I am and sprinted to find my phone.

Hmm, a private message from my BFF on Facebook, always intriguing, this time, it was like hitting a lottery.

Low and behold an old friend of hers, and a new friend of mine invited us to her East Coast wedding celebration.

The ding was received at 12:59 and the party started at 3:00.

While part of me was starting the car, the other part was anchored down with all she had to do. Celebrating love or food shopping? Once I said that out loud it was a no brainer.

Guess what? Milk can be purchased any ole time, but these friends were only here from California for the holidays. They came to celebrate their fabulous union with their East Coast peeps, and we were fortunate enough to be included in the festivities.

Needless to say, by some sort of miracle, we were both gussied up and drinking a cocktail by 3:30!! I even did my nails … it’s still a mystery.

When you say yes the universe helps you.  Dan Brule

Did I mention this was a gay wedding? Well, it was. Let me just say to the heterosexual crowd … THE BAR HAS BEEN RISEN. Game on people, game on.

We ate, danced, laughed, danced, laughed, danced, laughed …. you get the picture.

Here are a few photos of the shenanigans  fabulous time that I wanted to last all night long.




Selfie Station Shenanigans With the BFF


The Happiness With One Of The Brides



This Is What Fun Looks Like


The Photo That Keeps On Giving

After the glitter settled I was suddenly crippled. Apparently I sprained my gluteus medius. How did this happen you ask? Well, that was determined through a conversation with the bestie and confirmed by an Orthopedic doctor.

Me: I’m crippled! I can just about walk. I think it’s from dancing.

Bestie: Did you go too low?

Me: Laughter! What?

Bestie: When the DJ said, “How low can you go?” Did you go too low?

Me:  Laughter! It was at the seriousness of the question.

Bestie:  Joined in on the laughter and added: “you go low all of the time at the gym.”

Me:  Well, If I’m a cripple, I’m glad it’s from something as fun as going too low.

Me & Bestie:  Laughter!

0856954c92e33680ca1bbc0235a04e50The lesson here folks is to make sure you say YES more often. Saying NO is safe, but lord knows it’s dull. Challenge yourself! Easier said than done, but necessary.

Say “yes” to new experiences, new people and new adventures. You’ll be surprised at how much you learn about yourself just by agreeing to learn about someone or something else. Learning is good.

If I played it safe with this invitation, sure I might have had milk for my cereal in the morning, but I would never have these amazing memories, not to mention this meme. Milk is highly overrated anyway.

Say YES and Enjoy the Ride!


18 responses

  1. Lisa, it looks like you rocked the house. Good decision when opportunity knocked (or called in this case). Those detours are what provides the adventures. Keith

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    1. Amen to that Keith! Sometimes it’s just what the doctor ordered.


  2. I would love that kind of invitation, even on short notice! I’m not proud!

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    1. It was so very fun! So much fun that I was just released to regular activity last week from the doctor. Electric slide anyone?

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  3. It looks like a blast!


  4. So much fun, and right in the middle of the holidays, where it’s needed most.

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  5. As you say, milk can be bought any ole time (and practically any ole where). Congrats to the happy couple.

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    1. You’re not kidding! I’ll pass those well wishes along.

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  6. Loved this! I have made it a habit to say yes more often these days, rarely regretting that I did! Wishing the beautiful couple a lifetime of love & joy❤️

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    1. I’m sure they’ll appreciate the good wishes. Saying “yes” rocks!


  7. As always, I’m Lmao! Instead of “Got Milk?”, you’re all, “F Milk!” Love it!

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    1. Milk is so white ugh … lol!


  8. You are so right about saying “yes” whenever possible. Fun starts at YES!

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  9. Well, I just don’t even know what to say to that!! I am sooooo very happy that you said yes and we rose above you getting milk for the morning!! I hope your um… Butt is feeling better. Thanks for the laughs and the memories. Thanks for saying yes and living life with the top down!! Big hugs and kisses from CA.

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    1. You’re welcome! You have no idea how much that “yes” did for me, inside & out!


  10. Loved this. Being an introvert, my first response is always no, but I’m working on saying yes more. Its always more fun. The wedding sounds like a wonderful time.

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